And this week [my companion] has been doing really well. She has tried super hard to overcome the little things that bug her and show love. It has been amazing. She really is trying! There are still some difficult things, but we're at a point where we can talk it out together with understanding. I had an incredible experience with her this week actually. So we were having a bit of an argument, and it's in Korean, so it was pretty difficult for me. I had ideas of what I wanted to say in my head forming, but my tongue would just choke in my mouth and I couldn't say what I wanted to. I wanted to say something just logical like "I'm right, you're wrong" kind of thing and prove my point, but no it just was not happening. I was really frustrated, but I felt like I should just slow down and think about what I was saying. And all that came out was "I love you, I understand, I'm sorry" kind of thing. And then literally president, like a light switch came the gift of tongues. I could explain myself, I could understand her, and our relationship progressed, we solved whatever problem we were having. It was an incredible, undeniable witness of God's power. Literally like day and night. When I tried to speak with the spirit of contention, I could not. Words choked in my mouth. But when I wanted to speak with charity and understanding, the words came so easily. I am so grateful that Heavenly Father has given me the opportunity to speak Korean to my companion so I can think more before I speak! That is something I definitely need to improve on, so I'm grateful that we have this language barrier. If I would have been able to argue what I wanted to, nothing would've improved. Amazing.
They go through amazing growing experiences. We tell them this is a safe place to learn. Mistakes can be overcome quickly. If they were married or had children, some of the mistakes could be more catastrophic. In the mission field, they may make a major mistake, but they can try to overcome it and then learn from another companion.
We completed interviews with the last zone this week. Amazing people!
We finally interviewed the three young elders closest to us. For this transfer we've had three Assistants. I was unsure why we had three assistants, but it became clear later it was a good idea as we had other issues where three was the right number. A way is always made clear.
We had a sad day Sunday as well as we had to allow a sweet sister return home to get some attention on her health. We hope it will be only for a few weeks at most and she can return to us. She has been a miracle worker and a joy to everyone she has served with and served. We hope we get her back soon. She is a bright light in any room she enters.
We created as well as saw some interesting things this week. Many know how much I like to grill. We have a new grill, but it doesn't have the space to cook one of my favorites, Beer Can Chicken. As you would guess I don't use Beer. However, I did use a RootBeer can and filled it with Apple Juice and cooked it in the over. It almost looks like he is standing there happy to be our meal!
We're in the midst of the rainy season. We're sure the missionaries have been sending messages home about their experiences in the rain. It can put down five to ten inches of rain in not time. It comes in at all angles and the missionaries get pretty soaked. By the next day, there is little sign of any rain because their drainage systems are pretty remarkable. While taking a morning jog along the creek, it was possible to see how the water had been up four to six feet the night before by the way the grass had been pushed down. However, the view is always amazing.
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